Forgiveness

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有时候，我们愿意原谅一个人，并不是我们真的愿意原谅他，而是我们不想失去他。
不想失去他，唯有假装原谅他。 他有第三者，我们伤心地说：“我原谅你。”
我们只是不想输给第三者。

所谓原谅，也是很现实的。没得选择，只好原谅他。
经济上需要他，唯有原谅他。
感情上依赖他，唯有原谅他。
原谅，也是讲条件的。
然而，这一种假装的原谅，往往无法长久。
在最需要的时候，在跟第三者争胜负的时候，你慷慨地原谅了他。一旦他留在你身边，你会开始不甘心。你并不想原谅他，你无法欺骗自己。
一段爱情可以由爱重新开始，却不能由原谅重新开始。
当他说：“我对你已经没有爱的感觉。”你还可以原谅他吗？
这样也能原谅他，你实在太对不起自己了。

署名M 的女孩说，她跟男朋友一起八年了，她一次又一次原谅他不忠。她不想再原谅他。他外表迷人、富有，他在经济上一直照顾她，但是她现在不再留恋这些。她买过一张新的床，把长发剪短，去跳健康舞、去进修…… 她说得很好，我认为她是失恋者的典范。当一个男人不再爱你，你花他的钱也不会花得快乐。

你喜欢别人，别人不喜欢你，不要死缠烂打，也不用骂他没眼光，
鞠躬离场，微笑道别。
走得那么潇洒，他将来一定会想念你。
你爱的人变了心，你为自己争回一口气的唯一方法，就是跟他合作，立刻离开他，千万别让他看到你吐血。


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所有的原谅，无论是真的还是假装的，也该有底线。
在情场上，更要尽量得体；
有许多话不必说尽，有许多事不必做尽。

Getting started

Looking up

On the Bridge

Mom and Me

Lazy Little Boy =)

A little boy refused to walk

The one and only butterfly for today

はな

Me at work

Daniel at work

The suspension Bridge

Endless Stairs

A dog's eye view

know what creature is this?

~front view~
mom said it is part of the dragonfly family (蜻蜓类)

haha! the eyes look very comical~

Fungus?

There is quite a few of such white fungus on the tree trunk and logs.

The MacRitchie Trails

Today is the first day of holiday!

To celebrate this day, we went to the Top of the trees~
(hehe! finally!)

Invited a lot of friends to join... hmm, in the end, no one is able to make it. All my friends are lazy cats... sleeping and resting are too important to them.
err... is 7:30am that early?
hmm, probably ba...

but well, come on, it is a saturday!! should be more enthusiastic to start a day early! and to loosen up our stiffening bones!

hehe! they dont know what they missed. =)


Tree-top walking isn't as easy as it appears. To get there, where a 250m long free-standing suspension bridge awaits, we have to cover about 7km. Our expedition is not that smooth running; we walked more than 10km, cos we went the wrong way, wasted our energy for 3km. >_<

Who say guy got good sense of direction?

After reaching the bridge, it was another 7km back to the starting point. Such long distance walk (or more, depending on the route choosen, and the sense of direction) for someone (like me) who hardly exercise is no joke. But the desire to be among the tree-tops outweighed the tremendous amount of distance we had to trek.

It was a hot and wet weekend morning, with a few hikers and joggers along the way.
We set off along the Orange route (Venus Link) and embarked on our hike, donned in photo shooting gear and armed with drinking water. But half way through, we realize we didnt bring enough water, we were hungry, thirsty, and tired.... however, the routes to tree top walk is only 1 way, once started the journey, there is no turning back. To back out is not an option.. therefore, we have to carry on, dragging our feets on our way to find the correct direction. Luckily, there are tree shade at the 2 sides of the trail. One good thing about the trail was that the ascent was quite gentle. It took quite an effort on our part, but it wasnt overly taxing. However, after the ranger station, the peirce track was significantly more taxing. As mom and I huffed and puffed our way up, sticky and sweaty, stopped at intervals for breathers and photo taking, i even wonder if we were going to make it!

Our spirits perk up immediately when the huge suspension bridge appeared in front of us. The bridge connect 2 highest points (Bukit Peirce and Bukit Kalang) in MacRitchie. Maybe cos of the rain earlier, we didnt manage to see much unique insects, nor pretty flowers along the way. A bit disappointed, but nvm, we still took quite a few portraits, and scenery on the bridge too~

The mass of greenery that could be seen from here was revitalising. There was a giant tree, where by its trunk and branches was shoulder to shoulder with me. And i was on top of many others too~ We even saw a monkey on the bridge! it was "acrobating" itself on the bridge's rope~ and that create a bit of commotion among the pple~ hehe!!

The suspension bridge was made of sturdy metal and ropes. It swayed slightly from side to side when pple walk on it, and only a maximum of 30 pple were allowed to walk on the bridge at 1 time. haha! quite a soothing experience when crossing the bridge. However, the weather was not so nice; there was no wind and the sun was blazing. I could hardly open my eyes~

On the way back, we were caught in a sudden rain. We brought along 2 umbrellas, but the umbrellas we brought are only big enough to cover either us or our bags. Fortunately, we manage to find shelter within a few meters.

In the evening, we went to Grand Park Royal Plaza hotel for buffet, to feast~~
hohoho!



However, there are 2 side effects from the expedition today: =(
1) aching body for the next few days
2) a much darker, and uneven skin shade which took months to be fair again

Night Photography (Revisit a dear old place)

Today is such a cold day. It makes me realize that winter is drawing near.

Despite the drizzle and the freezing wind, we still went to take some night scenes. So as to Keep our promise to each other. The scenery is fantastic there~ too bad i am unable to capture its full beauty.... Although i broght along the tripod, i still do get shaky pics for most of the photos i took. >_<

This is the third time i been there.. The first time i went was in 2001 Feb with a group of interesting international friends. Now they are all dispersed to different places of the world, i am the little few who are still left in singapore. I miss those uni times... Year 2 in NTU, the time when we were really enjoying life and smiling at the start of every brand new day.

My dear friends, do you still remember those times?

Violin Prac at Esplanade

和朋友一起到Esplanade去练小提琴。第一次去到那里的乐器练习室，那里新颖大胆的装潢让我印象深刻，窗外充满艺术浪漫气息的夜景更是美不胜收。依着窗，轻撩琴弦，柔美和谐的和音耳边环绕，这种气氛让人迷醉。但每每总得靠他帮我掩饰那些有瑕疵的高音，还真委屈他了。 啊，如果我的琴音能如他一样拉得如此干净浑厚就太好啦~

音乐真的能够洗涤人的心灵。此时的我，真的把一切烦心的事都忘了。

朋友突发奇想，想到了这个拍窗上反射的角度，便在我拉得入神时赶快照下了这张。
哈哈！还真有创意呢~~

唯一美中不足的是，那里禁止摄影，唉，还真浪费了一片美景

Red White Eye

自昨晚开始，眼睛就不舒服了。
一看镜子，不得了，整个右眼布满了红通通的血丝，感到干涩肿胀。

对于我那一红一白的眼睛，刚开始时，我还神经大条地觉得很眩。 @_@

对着镜子就开始想象自己是伺机统领宇宙的 “焰霜姬”，
右指会发射如火焰般炙热的雷光，而左指则可有如冰雹般瞬间冻结地球上的生物……
手心浮悬的水晶光流，是我能量的来源。嘴角带着若有若无的邪异冷笑，空气中弥漫着绚烂而诡异的颜色。渗着水气的水晶光流，晶莹剔透，由内而外散发出时而炫目、时而寒冷的迷幻色彩，有着致命的吸引力，如魔咒般让人无法转移视线，却也不敢上前异渎触碰。

愚蠢的地球人，你们继续嬉闹吧！
你们这个劣质的星球，即将毁灭于火焰出现的时刻！
哇哈哈哈哈哈！！！！

自己想，自己爽。唉~



今天又再照了照镜子，眼睛的情况完全没好转，别于昨日，情绪上就可没初时乐观了。

红白眼，看起来吓人不说，光是眼睛的酸涩感就让人的心情掉到最低点。
好不容易腾出今天来做自己想做的一些新鲜事，不想这样就取消了。。。。



管它的，就这样进城去吧~

Young Entrepreneur Competition

Haiz, only manage to earn $241 after working non-stop from 3 - 9:30pm....
This is really hard earn money~~~~ 血汗钱啊~~~
The students i brought there are just too shy to pull customers to our stall.
到最后还是要靠老娘亲自出马~~

hahaha! but to speak the truth, if i were the passers-by, i wont buy these things too.
The handicrafts are not attractive looking at all and the words and decorations are so messy.
In the end, i started chitchatting with students le. leaving the job to the poor parent volunteers.
hmm, they are even more keen in raising fund for the school than me~ =p

wonder where they get such energy from?
Anyway, it is a fun experience, and i am happy to spend a day with the students in such casual way. ^_^

an unexpected visitor

A huge grasshopper/locust flew into our balcony this evening. and clings vertically on mom's porcelain pot.

Its body is about the size of my palm, not including the legs yet~
with red wings too... looks a bit yucky, but is good as a shooting subject. =)

after all, we only have such visitor to our balcony once in a blue moon.

invitation by bank

s.c bank sent us an invitation to their new suntec priority banking branch.
So, off we go, to its cocktail cum calvin klein fashion show tonight.
the models are so tall! most are ard 180cm i guess.
my height only reach their chest level. ~sad~~
suddenly i feel that i am the hobbit race in the Lord of the Rings when i stand by their side.

met a banking personal there, he is responsible for mom's account in that bank.
scary.... look so much like zp...
现在的男银行员都长这样吗？ =p

the food was disappointing. haiz... we are still hungry when we left the place.
hehe! but we went to Tony Roma after that.
I have always wanted to bring family there to this restaurent which is famous for its ribs. But it is just too hard to drag them out to town.
It is indeed 塞翁失马，焉知非福。 At least we get to dine in a newly discovered restaurant tonight. =D

better sleep early, tmr is another long and taxing day...

Hahaha! a nice site~

a great site to kill time~
http://gprime.net/video/

Presidential speechalist:
http://gprime.net/video.php/presidentialspeechalist

Ipod flea:
http://gprime.net/video.php/ipodflea

Reason for Condoms:
http://gprime.net/video.php/reasonforcondoms

Einstein the Bird:
http://gprime.net/video.php/einsteinthebird

Blowdarts:
http://gprime.net/video.php/blowdarts

Simply the Best
http://gprime.net/video.php/simplythebest

Entertaining Midget
http://gprime.net/video.php/entertainingmidget

Beer Ad
http://gprime.net/video.php/bigad

Nitendo the mesacappella (Brings back lots of memories ^_^ )
http://gprime.net/video.php/nintendothemesacappella

Looking forward to Weekend

Me feeling so excited now~

cant wait till this weekend!!~~ =D

no mood to study

私は日本のクラスからちょうど帰りました。
だんだん　日本語は　難しくなりました。
たくさん　語彙や　文法など　覚えなければなりません。
私はとても疲れた。
来週に他に試験があります。
ああ～まだ勉強しない。
でも、勉強の気分が悪いですが、いろいろ所に写真がとりたい。

Happy Birthday Jshan~

今天是朋友的生日。
好久没见到他了，不知现在如何
一句礼貌性的简短回答，无意间又再次的提醒了我。
提醒了我和那群朋友们之间，那个淡到可有可无的距离。
是啊，我鲜少想起他们；我的生活，有着我自己的精彩。

哦，可能他和另一个朋友除外吧~
呵呵！几乎每次上网时都可看得见 r.h.：整天流连在网上的 “现代蜘蛛人”。 =p


怎么就没忘掉这一天呢？可能日子好记吧……

就像大学时的一个法国朋友一样，问过一次后，9月20日便牢牢地印在他的脑海里了。就连他自己也很搞不懂，照他说，他对日期的记性一直来是很差的。

随口哼上一首歌，祝他生日快乐~ ^_^

The hottest topic in China's school campus

转贴自新闻网

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前不久， 清华、北大的校园bbs上出了一位不拘一格的“才女加美女”——芙蓉姐姐，每天都会有无数学子静静地守候在bbs上焦急地等待她的“倩影”的出现。她以自己别样的文字和独特的自拍照片引起了无数学子热切的关注，瞬间风靡整个清华北大校园，并迅速蔓延到全国各大高校bbs上和虚拟网络社区中。

网友们都以极大的激情热烈地讨论着这位另类的“清水芙蓉”，品评她的身体与容貌、猜测她的身世与来历，并不知疲惫地互相转发她的文字和照片。那么，这位神秘的姐姐究竟是怎样一个人呢？

据网友们不辞辛劳的挖掘，我们得到一份详细的资料，很轻松地就了解到芙蓉姐姐的概况：约28岁，血型O型，巨蟹座，身高166cm，体重不足90斤，腰围1尺六，胸部极为丰满，爱好跳舞……这里就不一一列出了，按她自己的话说就是：“我那妖媚性感的外形和冰清玉洁的气质（以前同学评价我的原话）让我无论走到哪里都会被众人的目光无情地揪出来。我总是很焦点。我那张耐看的脸，配上那副火爆得让男人流鼻血的身体。”

据说芙蓉姐姐是一个游荡在清华北大校园周边地带、号称以考研为业的边缘人，她最努力做的事情就是坚持不懈地在水木清华BBS上张贴自己的生活照，同时以漠视世俗的执着在网上发表与玉照交相辉映的抒情文字。而且芙蓉姐姐的玉照本着自然纯朴的特色，不施粉黛、不着华服，重在以“清水出芙蓉”的自然美全方位多角度展示容貌和身材；芙蓉姐姐的文字则以近乎虔诚的色彩极力赞颂自己美丽的身体和容貌，并且对别人只欣赏她的外貌很不甘心，渴望用卓越的内在才华来展现自己的内在美。

这就是芙蓉姐姐，一个大胆而执着的“奇”女子。

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看了她在网上的照片，笑到喷饭

真佩服她的勇气…… 哈哈哈哈哈！！

真的是：芙蓉一出，谁与争锋？？？

here are some of her photos~ @_@

better prepare tissue, may laugh till tears flowing

http://www.dressworld.net/hot_frjj_picture.htm
http://www.dressworld.net/hot_frjj_picture2.htm

Hock's Birthday

Happy Birthday my god-bro 福仔~

Today is his birthday.
But he cant celebrate, hoho! cos exam drawing near...
poor thing~

nvm, can go for post-celebration together during holiday~

a good worker?~ The beauty of language

This interesting article is taken from humblewarrior's blog. =p

Job Review(Richard Walters)

One day, a project leader was asked to submit a review of one of his employees. He wrote the following:

"Bob Smith, my assistant programmer, can always be found

hard at work in his cubicle. Bob works independently, without

wasting company time talking to colleagues. Bob never

thinks twice about assisting fellow employees, and he always

finishes given assignments on time. Often, Bob takes extended

measures to complete his work, sometimes skipping coffee

breaks. Bob is a dedicated individual who has absolutely no

vanity in spite of his high accomplishments and profound

knowledge in his field. I firmly believe that Bob can be

classed as a high-caliber employee, the type which cannot be

dispensed with. Consequently, I duly recommend that Bob be

promoted to executive management, and a proposal will be

executed as soon as possible.

"Regards - Project Leader



Shortly thereafter, the HR department received the following memo from the project leader:

"Sorry, but that idiot was reading over my shoulder while I wrote the report sent to you earlier today. Kindly read only the odd numbered lines for my true assessment of him."
Regards - Project Leader

feeling depressed

星期六，还得要回学校。。。
唉，真是苦命人啊~

昨天吃了一大堆炸的，如惩罚我的馋嘴似的，今天鼻子下方冒了一个超大的豆子。
恶心到让人不容忽视。
明知道不可这样，但手痒，还一直用手去挤弄它。这下可好了，还冒脓了。 T_T

虽然我不是一个超级注重外表的人，但看到镜子中的恶心大脓豆，还是会感到好沮丧啊

下午，妈妈帮我把手上的玛瑙手环给拿下来了。戴了这么久，拔下来后居然还有点舍不得呢。这只泛着晶莹剔透的红光的手环，是妈妈年轻时所戴的，有将近三十年了吧。

现在我2005年的生日过了，所以也不需要一直戴着了。

看着它静静地躺在妈妈的珠宝盒里，没有翡翠的雍容华贵，也没有琥珀的平静祥和，但它在黑色的绒布底上低调地显出其古老的神秘色彩。丝毫不逊色呢~

傍晚，在家里练钢琴
Beethoven 的《月光奏鸣曲》（Moon Light Sonata），居然是拿捏得最好的一次。 带着若有若无的哀怨感伤。
（虽然他和我感伤的原因不一样; 我的是蒜皮小事得多了 =p）

Hai Yu

一直来都喜欢海芋

朋友转寄给我一个有关海竽的真实的小故事
是这样的……


有一对老先生和老太太很恩爱，有一天，老先生中风了，没办法动了



老太太都守在他的身旁照顾着他。有一天，老太太告诉儿子她想去学开车。



儿子很讶异，因为老太太连脚踏车都不会骑。她怎竟会想学开车。儿子问了老太太。



老太太回答：我想学开车载你爸到阳明山上去看海芋。



你爸年轻时曾载我去阳明山看海芋，指着海芋说“此情永不渝（芋）”




现代的人，又有几个能对感情如此执着呢？

I love the colour~

simply love the colour contrast~
没照到马来西亚也无所谓了
这算是意外的收获吧~
谁说他不会照人的呢？
me like this pic lots ^_^

We took a loooooooong time taking this pic~
cos of my hands shaking, wind blowing, and wrong setting
although the colour not nice, i decide to keep the photo~ =p

All the crabs at the mangroves can perform stunts.
They climb trees~~

Monitor Lizard?

i realize one great advantage of my camera comparing to frd's
hoho!

hehe! erm.. actually, this pic can be more exciting =p

Red Bug

这张得来不易啊！ 手都举得酸死了~
还麻烦人家帮我把树枝固定，真不好意思
呵呵！照相是很好的手臂运动呢~

Aerie

Weather so hot~
Sweating all over

this fellow just couldnt keep still

现在看你往哪里跑~ 呵呵


r.h 欺负小昆虫
哈哈！

Sungei Buloh wetland reserve

~where mangroves and wetland wildlife thrive~

Me woke up very early today~ and set off to this nature park with frd at 7am.
The weather is so hot!
But we took many pics~

彼が取った写真は非常に素晴らしい
私の標準は非常により低くある
しかし、今日　私は　写真を取ったとき、楽しいと　思います。
そして　parkで　歩いてから、私は元気になりました!　^_^

hoho! 快乐的一天！~




http://www.sbwr.org.sg/